Hello beautiful soul!

I have good news, and I have bad news.

If you want happier, more connected relationships with men (or anyone), it starts with you.

That's the best news because it means it's in your power to change things. 

And it's bad news because it means it's up to you to get the ball rolling, and there is likely a voice inside you saying, "But why do I have to do the work?"

I get it. I really do. I felt that way once too. 

But something shifted when I began to understand that a new way of being in relationships was possible -- and that the work I did would ripple out into every relationship that mattered.

So I decided to get over myself and test the waters and see what I could change.

The results have been miraculous. 

In my life -- and my clients' lives.

Imagine this: 

• One client went from being annoyed at her husband's breathing, full of tension when they were in the same room...to dancing around the kitchen cooking together like they did 20. years ago.
• Another client went from a string of relationships with men who mistreated her, feeling ready to throw in the towel on relationships...to being engaged to a kind, supportive man who she enjoys "doing life" with.
• Another client had a distant relationship with her father for 55 years until she learned what you'll learn in this program. With tears in her eyes, she told me she has NEVER been closer to her dad. Recently, he even asked her to teach him what she was learning. 

When you change the ingredients you put into a relationship, the entire dynamic changes. 

In Luminosa Man Camp, you get exactly the knowledge you need to bring about the change -- in a creative way that LANDS in your heart so you can integrate it. 

I know men.

I can decode them for you -- and even better lead you to relationships with them that FEEL good.

I spent a year in an intensive program all about understanding men -- a full on year that was literally more intensive than the masters I earned in education. 

I studied, interviewed, implemented, integrated, tested tools and strategies, demonstrated my understanding, and coached and coached and coached.

My relationships with every man in my life transformed (including my relationship with my boyfriend and with my teenage son). 

The state of my relationships WITH this knowledge is mind-blowingly different. 

I remember sobbing in frustration because I felt like my boyfriend just didn't care when he did things like forget my birthday or fall asleep when we were fighting. 

I felt abandoned, bereft, alone. I took it everything he did -- or didn't do -- personally. 

And now, I know how to set us both up for success -- and how to navigate our relationship in such a way that these things do not happen. But if they ever did, I would not take it the same way. I might not always like what he does, but I understand where he's coming from now. And it's not lack of love! It feels entirely different.

The result:

He doesn't need to walk on eggshells anymore. And I don't need to sob into my pillow feeling lost and alone.

Are my relationships perfect? Not my any means. But perfection is not the standard. 

Happiness is. 

Enjoying the evolution of my relationships is peaceful.

My relationships with men bring me joy now. 

The most creative and playful way that I share key elements of this life-changing knowledge is in Luminosa Man Camp.

What is Luminosa Man Camp?

It's seriously transformational play. 

I teach you 5 foundational topics in depth -- including the insights AND how to apply them IMMEDIATELY to transform your relationships.

You will:

• Experience more connection and less stress with the men and boys in your life.
• Understand what it means when he does things that make you scratch your head (or want to tear your hair out in frustration) so you can stay more centered and at ease.
• Understand key differences between your brain and his -- and your priorities and his.
• Create powerful partnerships that bring out the best in both of you.
• Realize that some of the things he does that you thought meant he didn't love you either A) had literally nothing to do with how he feels about you or B) actually demonstrate that he DOES love you. 
• Understand why he uses so few words compared to you (or vice versa). (It's not because he's emotionally less mature.)
• Get clarity around why he does what he does -- and why he doesn't do what he doesn't do.
• Know simple but powerful strategies you can use in your interactions that build bridges instead of barriers between you.
• Understand yourself better so you can have a more empowered perspective for your own experience in relationships.
• Understand one key change you can make when you are talking to him that will transform the tenor of the exchange.
• Have more connected conversations -- and more ease and more play.

With this knowledge, you can upgrade and transform every relationship -- and especially those with the people you love most. 

Feel more SUPPORT, more CONNECTION, more EASE, and more FREEDOM in your relationships. 

If you've never attended one of the Luminosa Camps, you're in for a special treat. In these online programs, we interact with new concepts and ideas in a really powerful way -- by drawing them! 

Don't worry if you have no art skills -- I will literally walk you through each and every mark on the page. And we're talking stick figures here, my friends. I figure out how to draw things by looking up things like "How to draw a simple paper airplane," and then I show you how.

Why do we draw? 

1. It's playful and creative and sets something loose in us, helping us more freely express ourselves.
2. Drawings help us visualize what we're talking about. When we put concepts into simple easy-to-follow drawings, we map the information in our brain in multiple ways, helping us integrate the material at a more impactful level.
3. Since our brains think in pictures, our drawings help us remember what we're learning about so we can more easily apply it when something comes up in our lives. 
4. It's fun! I love to make learning fun!

We call the Luminosa Camps "arts and crafts for the soul." 

My heart loves these camps!  ~ Amy Neville 

Luminosa Man Camp happens online so you can be in the comfort of your home while you play. You'll see what I'm drawing so you can draw while I lead you to profound insights and reflections.  

When:

The 5 modules are pre-recorded and available immediately upon purchase. You'll have lifetime access.

What you'll need:

• A sketchbook (but no art skills necessary)
• Pencil
• Pens
• (Optional) Colored pencils, markers, or watercolor paints -- something colorful to play with
• An open mind and heart
• Your playful spirit. 

I am so excited to welcome you to Luminosa Man Camp!

With so much love,

xoxo

Ellie 
Founder of The New Brave Co.

P.S. Any questions -- email [email protected]! 

About Ellie

Ellie Bassick-Trovato, M.Ed., is the CEO and founder of The New Brave, the home of Love's revolutionaries. She is a women's empowerment coach and Peace, Love + Joy Guide, and the author of The Joy Spiral Playbook. As a dynamic educator, speaker and coach, she crafts powerful and engaging curriculums. Through her programs, memberships, and private coaching, she paves a path for clients to catapult their emotional intelligence, spirituality, leadership, and relationships forward to a new, more evolved standard. She has been described as "having an angel on your shoulder as you navigate life." After the loss of her husband and both parents, she looks at the world through the lens of someone who has come through the darkest of times and emerged as a beacon of love, hope, and possibility. She will uplift your spirit, remind you of who you truly came here to be, and empower you to go out and be a force for love in the world. She is the founder of The New Brave and the leader of the free high vibe Facebook group, The Luminosa Playground. Follow her on  Facebook and Instagram at The New Brave Co, or on LinkedIn. You can find out more about her at www.thenewbrave.com and email her directly at [email protected].